there are people who use physical violence instead of words, and vice versa. You just don't talk about someone's dead kid. It's classless, there is no place for that kind of crap ANYWHERE. You can even attack someone's ability as a parent, but - I've seen it on more than one occasion - if you question or accuse someone's kid, it's just a recipie for disaster.

Throwing a chair OTOH, is stupid and criminal.

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Waiting for someone to say something so stupid it's worthy of placing here...